0 New Hugs
Hubby and I were at a party this weekend where we were made fun of for being too lovey-dovey. We were sitting next to each other using small gestures to stay connected, touching legs, running our hands through each other’s hair, letting each other know “you matter more to me than anyone else.” The teasing was all in fun, but it got me thinking. Is that inappropriate? Were we touching too much?
Marriage is hard work. Hubby and I have certainly been through our share of tough times. We need these small moments to keep us together. To keep us connected and remain a united force. When we let go, physically and emotionally our relationship implodes. When this happens and I am struggling to fight for my best friend it feels as though my whole world is collapsing. It affects not only me, but our kids as well. So, we touch. We kiss whenever we leave each other or see each other again. We always say, “I love you.” And, we try to remember just how grateful we are to have one another. This saying I have just added to our wall is something we say to each other as a reminder. I became the luckiest woman in the world when that one boy asked this one girl for her hand…
Please accept this blog as my virtual hug to you.