How to Choose Love: Where to begin

Guys, choosing love is fucking hard. You would think it would be like all sunshine and roses, but it’s not. It’s not. It’s hard ass work. What could possibly be so hard about loving others? Great question. The short answer? Everything. Think about it. When you choose love, you must choose it in every moment.…

The One Thing You Need For Growth

In our quest to become the best we can be, growth is inevitable. The thing is growth is hard. Change is hard. We want it, but we don’t want to have to do anything to make it happen. That requires work. Hard work that well, is just hard. So, if you are anything like me,…

How do I overcome fear to live my best life?

Fear is the thing keeping us from doing all the things we really want to do. But, no you say. It’s not fear. It’s responsibility. It’s time. It’s not being/having enough. Bullshit. It’s fear. Ok, great. But, Melinda, how do I overcome fear to live my best life? Awesome question. Let’s start with what you…

How do I self-validate?

Who’s your validator? This is a question I have been relentlessly asking myself over the past week. It’s been brought to my attention by my intuitive healer that I’ve been looking to my hubby for self-validation.  Of course, he’s been doing the same to me which leads to a very dysfunctional marriage. When one of…

Getting what we deserve

Exciting opportunities keep presenting themselves to me since I relocated here to Atlanta. I am officially interning for a writing coach and was just asked to provide content on a new site mytrendingstories.com. (go follow me there!) So cool, right?! Kind of. I am beyond grateful and so blessed for the internship. I am learning…

Love does matter

I believe love is always the answer. This is a pretty simple concept to preach, but putting it in to action at times can require work. It can mean relinquishing your ego and accepting whatever comes your way, be it a person, a circumstance or even a feeling. This is pretty hard work until, it…