How to Choose Love: Where to begin

Guys, choosing love is fucking hard. You would think it would be like all sunshine and roses, but it’s not. It’s not. It’s hard ass work. What could possibly be so hard about loving others? Great question. The short answer? Everything. Think about it. When you choose love, you must choose it in every moment.…

How do I overcome fear to live my best life?

Fear is the thing keeping us from doing all the things we really want to do. But, no you say. It’s not fear. It’s responsibility. It’s time. It’s not being/having enough. Bullshit. It’s fear. Ok, great. But, Melinda, how do I overcome fear to live my best life? Awesome question. Let’s start with what you…

It’s official again.

With each step, this relocation to Atlanta feels more and more real. Here’s the latest step:    Ack. We are not technically for sale yet, but the real estate agreement has been signed and we are a ‘coming soon’ home now. So. Many. Emotions. I have had 2 years to adjust to this idea of…

I did that thing.

I have been pursuing a lot of energy work as a way to clear old patterns/behaviors/things that no longer serve me and to assist me in living my Truth. I have seen a Shaman and an intuitive healer. I have meditated on clearing my chakras. I have purchased and received as gifts many crystals and…

Stay strong or move on?

How do you know? How do you know when it is time to stay where you are at – miserable and ready for change – or move on? I have always chosen to move on. Sure, I would stay for awhile in that miserable state, but eventually I would leave “knowing” it was the right…

Malfunction

My oldest son is 8 and recently (usually on the way home from school) he began a rather humorous behavior. When I would ask him about his day, or try to engage him in conversation he would go limp and say, “malfunction”. Deadpanned. No smile. Nothing. The first time he did it I started to…